BDSM: Who and What?

With the launching of the most recent cinematic installation of the Fifty Shades of Grey trilogy, more and more people are asking what BDSM is and who engages in such practices? Currently, I am part of a group of researchers,┬áincluding Dr. Michael Aaron, Dulcinea Pitagora and graduate research assistant Serenity Curtis, who are exploring BDSM […]

My Second Sit-Down with the Great Northern Sexcast

It was my pleasure to sit down with Kelly and Colleen, hosts of the Great Northern Sexcast, for the second time. This time, we talked about Sex Speak Sessions in the Twin Cities and beyond. We also got into the topics of polyamory, “monogamish,” compersion, cheating and healing, and more. Listen here or on the […]


Welcome to! Thank you for your interest in my work, and for the opportunity to share my thoughts with you, and hopefully be of some assistance to you and your relationships. This site is a portal into contacting me to set up a clinical consultation, a research talk, interview, Tantra for Two workshop, Sex […]